Samuel Oladipupo Essodee
Love is sweet when all the connection and affection is guaranteed. Smiles, laughters and all the sweet words. Somehow, the lady has to be on the petting side, and she can hardly hide her feelings – often with a sense asking for more and more appreciation. But, too bad, the myth and reality of it does not always last forever. By the way, how and why do women fall out of love?
According to Viral Ventura, here are a few reasons …
1. SHE’S GETTING MORE ATTENTION FROM SOMEONE ELSE
A man that spends too much of his time on other pursuits and ignoring his woman is setting himself up for abandonment. All of us want attention in some form or another and it’s important to understand that men and women are not necessarily seeking the same kind. A woman that feels like she does not have the attention of her man may wonder, especially when someone else shows up and gives her the kind of attention she is craving. A woman needs to feel like she’s important a man’s life and any guy that wants to hang on to the woman he loves must make a reasonable effort to make his lady feel like the most important person in his life.
2. HE WON’T FIGHT FAIR
Fights and disagreements are an inevitable part of almost every relationship and it’s important for both parties to play by some very basic rules. Always be willing to admit when something is clearly your fault and be willing to say you are sorry. Guys that won’t do that are likely to create a lot resentment in their lady that can wear her down and feel like she’s in a relationship that isn’t worth keeping. Fighting should not be about winning and should be about admitting when you’re wrong and knowing when and how to compromise.
3. HE DOESN’T STAND UP FOR HER
It’s not uncommon for a guy to find himself in an awkward position between his family or friends and his lady. Falling in love with someone in no way guarantees that family and friends will be accepting of that person and things can get quite complicated. A man that is truly committed to a woman will stand up for her when others say disrespectful things about her or otherwise put her down. Sure, a woman can hold her own when needed but she also needs to know that her man cares enough about her to challenge others who question her character or motives.
4. SHE IS NOT FEELING APPRECIATED
Having a relationship means more than just spending time together or calling each other your “significant other.” As you have probably heard many times before, successful relationships require some amount of effort and if he takes her for granted and does not make it a point to make sure she is appreciated, the relationship may sour. It’s a cop-out when a guy says that he “knows” that his lady appreciates him simply because they are together. That’s not likely to make her feel very special. Making her feel appreciated involves actually doing things that demonstrate feelings of love like buying a special gift, penning a love letter or preparing a special meal for her. Like we said, relationships involve work.
5. HE DOESN’T MAKE HER LAUGH ANYMORE
While it may sound trivial at first, the ability a man has to make his lady laugh is important to her because it makes her feel connected. While it may not have taken a genuine scientific study to convince most people that a woman laughing a lot at a guy’s jokes demonstrates that she is interested in him, a study like that was actually carried out and the results are not unexpected. A University of Kansas study showed that the more a woman laughs while talking to a guy, the more interested she is in him.
SOURCE: Viral Ventura
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