Elijah Adebero
BBNaija star, Alex Asogwa, popularly known as Alex Unusual, has recalled how she recently got close to marriage.
According to her, she had to turn down the proposal of the guy because she suffered beating from him always.
Taking to her Instagram page, she said her former lover tried to show the world that they had a perfect relationship but she had a black eye and wore expensive shades to cover it up, while people thought she was having a better time.
She wrote (SIC):
“I almost got married last year.
I mean I was proposed to but I chose me.
I chose life.
How can I be with someone that hits me?
He always tried to show the world that we had a perfect relationship but I had a black eye and wore his expensive shades to cover it up.
I can remember my caption when I posted that picture “Rich and getting it”.
I had comments like “show us the way, cut soap for me, you are the fashionista”.
My dear your fashionista was covering her shame.
I could have chosen to stay with him, won’t my children have to constantly watch their mum being hit?
What kind of effect will it have on them?
Will they be traumatized?
Will they become bullies?
Will they learn to hurt others?.
There are relationships where people are free to be happy.
I wanted that.
I wanted a happy family so, I sacrificed my unhealthy relationship before I sealed it.
I saw the signs and did what I to do on time. Andre’s mother is also a bully.
She will constantly tell me to treat her son like a king so he won’t be upset and hit me.
He will beat me for disagreeing with him, for complaining about his late nights, for smiling for too long, for not making fresh meals three times a day, for wanting to go out with friends.
In as much as he blames his character on his upbringing, I was bullied in school, that’s why I hate being talked back at, my dad made me angry child, I am a Leo and you are aquarium Abi asparagus (whatever he calls it).
Zodiac sign excuses to be animal.
He is an adult now and should know what’s wrong and right. He is so rich but wealth doesn’t guarantee health.
All these were word from Udochi during our conversation lasted week.
I understand where she is coming from.
Society is blaming her for still being unmarried, social media trills are bullying as usual but I respect her decision.
Choose you and your future today.
Do not let your children become monsters because you chose to be wutg a monster.
That’s if you’ll be alive to see your children after such decision.
Don’t be with a bully.”
