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My husband doesn’t provide food in the house- Wife tells court

A housewife, Sadiya Mauza, on Wednesday, pleaded with an Upper Area Court in Mararaba, Nasarawa State, to dissolve her marriage because, according to her, her husband does not provide food in the house.

Mauza also told the court that her husband, Idris Wandara, has failed in his duty as a husband.

She said that they were married under Islamic Law and Customs and that the union was blessed with three children.

She alleged that the respondent is irresponsible, does not take care nor feed her and the children especially whenever she is pregnant and delivers.

“Each time I get pregnant , my husband forces me to go to my parents’ house. He doe not provide food for me until the baby is six months.

“This behaviour of his has made my parents uncomfortable and sad because they usually go out of their way to provide food for me and the baby,” She said.

She said that she no longer loves him and had lost interest in the marriage due to lack of food and accommodation.

Mauza pleaded with the court to dissolve the marriage and to also compel the respondent to pay the children school fees and feeding allowance of N50,000.

The respondent, however, denied all the allegations.

The judge, Mr Ibrahim Shekarau, adjourned the case until Oct. 28 for hearing and consideration of settlement.

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Adamawa girls demand law against early marriage

Girls in Adamawa have urged the governor’s wife, Hajiya Lami Fintiri, to sponsor an early marriage prohibition bill to stop parents from marrying out their young daughters.

The girls made the call on Friday in a communique they presented to the governor’s wife after a rally to mark this year’s United Nation’s International Day of the Girl.

Reading the letter on behalf of the girls at Government House, Yola, Ms Fatima Ismaila, said the bill became necessary for the girls to have equal opportunity to acquire education.

“We need you to sponsor an early marriage prohibition bill through the state House of Assembly that will stop our parents from giving us out for marriage at least until after completing our secondary education.

“We need equal opportunity to access basic and quality education, please tell our parents to send us to schools,” she said.
The girls also called for the recruitment of more female teachers and the need for separate toilets in schools.

They also seek protection against rape and other forms of child abuse in the state.

“We are confident in you and his Excellency’s ability to address our concerns and we promised you today ma, we will try our best in studies and character to become role models like you and make Adamawa state a girls friendly state,” she said.

Responding, the state Mrs Fintiri, represented by the Permanent Secretary, Ministry of Women and Social Development, Mrs Justina Patrick, assured the girls of the administration’s commitment to education, particularly that of the girl child.

While noting the many challenges facing the girl child, Mrs Fintiri said that providing the needed education to the girl child is the major way out of the challenges.

“When you are educated you will know your right and be in a better position to protect it,” she said.

She urged for the review of some cultures that suppressed women from contributing more effectively in building the society, adding that the society must speak loud against rape and other violence against women and other vulnerable people in the society.

The Adamawa UNICEF Education Consultant, Mr Joel Jutum, lauded Adamawa government for its collaboration with the fund in various sectors, particularly education.

Jutum, who reiterated the sustained support of UNICEF to Adamawa, said that the international day for the girl child was meant to promote girls’ human right; highlights gender inequalities and address the various forms of discrimination and abuse suffered by girls.

The women groups, particularly from Christian Association of Nigeria (CAN) and Federation of Muslim Women Association of Nigeria (FOMWAN), join the girls in a solidarity rally on streets of Yola.

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Why I chose not to have children – $3.5bn-worth Oprah Winfrey

Media giant Oprah Winfrey has said that the fear of the great responsibility involved in bringing up children made her decide against having them.

This is despite the fact that she is said to be worth $3.5 Billion, earning, while reportedly earning $300m per year.

She has been engaged to her partner Stedman Graham in 1992 but they neither moved on to get married not decided to have kids, with the 65-year-old also telling ‘People Magazine’ that it was no getting married that really saved their relationship.

She said: “At one point in Chicago I had bought an additional apartment because I was thinking, ‘Well, if we get married, I’m going to need room for children.

According to her, she decided against having children because she witnessed “the depth of responsibility and sacrifice that is actually required to be a mother” during her years on The Oprah Winfrey Show.

“I realised, ‘Whoa, I’m talking to a lot of messed-up people, and they are messed up because they had mothers and fathers who were not aware of how serious that job is,'” Winfrey said.

“I don’t have the ability to compartmentalise the way I see other women do. It is why, throughout my years, I have had the highest regard for women who choose to be at home [with] their kids, because I don’t know how you do that all day long.

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“Nobody gives women the credit they deserve.”

“No regrets” Oprah Winfrey says as she reveals why she chose not to have kids or get married after being engaged to Stedman Graham for 27 years.

“I used to think about this all the time, that I was working these 17-hour days, and so were my producers, and then I go home and I have my two dogs and I have Stedman, who’s letting me be who I need to be in the world.

“He’s never demanding anything from me like, ‘Where’s my breakfast? Where’s my dinner?’ Never any of that, which I believed would have changed had we married.”

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Woman bags 10-year imprisonment for killing fiance during a fight

A 27-year-old woman, Blessing Edet, was on Wednesday sentenced to 10 years in prison for stabbing Edet Ebong, her 33-year-old fiance, to death during a fight over her refusal to wear an engagement ring he had given to her.

Edet was originally charged with a count charge of murder. The sentence was, however, commuted to voluntary manslaughter by the trial judge, Justice Oluwatoyin Taiwo.

“By stabbing the deceased in the lower part of his abdomen, she did not intend to cause grievous harm to the defendant. The defendant has established factors necessary to prove self defence.

“I find that the defendant acted in self defence as she was a victim of unprovoked assault. The defendant is not guilty of murder, but I find her guilty of the involuntary manslaughter of Edet Ebong.

“Section 227 of the Criminal Law of Lagos State prescribes life imprisonment for the offence of involuntary manslaughter. This is a clear case of recklessness on the part of both the deceased and the defendant.

“I hereby sentence the defendant to ten-years imprisonment with no option of fine. The sentence will take effect from the month of August 2015 which is when she has been on custody,” Justice Taiwo said.

The prosecution, led by Mr F. Oyedale had alleged that Edet committed the offence at 12.15 am on Aug. 18, 2015 at her residence located at No. 1, Falana St., Ogombo, Lekki, Lagos.

Edet’s trial commenced at the high court on July 5, 2017 with five witnesses including Esther Ebong, the sister to the deceased, a medical doctor and the Investigating Police Officer (IPO) testifying for the prosecution.

Edet testified solely in her defence on Feb. 7.

According to Edet, the deceased came to her apartment at midnight and woke her up to request that she cook a meal for him, but she had refused because she was tired.

“Upon hearing that I was tired, he went into the kitchen and saw the engagement ring he had given me beside the stove. He became angry and asked why I was not wearing the ring.

“He broke a mirror and used part of it to stab me, I was bleeding and I was crying out to the neighbors for help,” she said.

According to her, during the scuffle she stabbed Ebong in his abdomen with a kitchen knife.

Earlier, before the sentence was passed, the Defence Counsel, Ms Favour Eboh-Mgbehoma, in her allocutus (plea for mercy) had asked that the court temper justice with mercy.

‘We plea to the honourable court to put into consideration that the defendant could have ended up being the victim.

“She is a first time offender, a young woman who has her whole life ahead of her.

“She has been in custody since 2015 when she was 23-years-old and she had learnt all the bitter lessons of life,” Eboh-Mgbehoma said.

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Court dissolves 4-year-old marriage over alleged infidelity

A Mapo Customary Court in Ibadan on Thursday dissolved a four-year-old marriage between a trader, Rukayat Akanni and her husband, Sola over alleged infidelity and threat to life.

Delivering judgment, Chief Ademola Odunade, the President the Court, held that the dissolution was was done in order to ”blood shed”.

Odunade awarded custody of the only child to Akanni and ordered Sola to pay N5,000 as the child’s monthly feeding allowance.

Earlier, Akanni, who lives in Akuro area in Ibadan, prayed the court to grant her prayer for divorce on grounds that her husband was unfaithful and irresponsible.

”Sola has taken his adulterous lifestyle to another level by bringing different women into our matrimonial home.

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“If I dare complain, he beats me up. In fact, Sola frequently threatens yo kill me.

“I do not want to lose my life too soon. Separate us,” she said.

However, the defendant was not in court when he was called to respond to the allegations leveled against him.

The bailiff said that he served several hearing notices on the respondent.

The court’s registrar was subsequently directed to send the copy of the judgment to Sola.

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Wife drags husband to court for refusing to have more children

A 27-year-old house wife, Faiza Yusuf, on Wednesday dragged her husband, Muhammad Abubakar, before a Shari’a court sitting at Rigasa, Kaduna, seeking divorce over his lack interest to have more children.

Yusuf, who resides in Nasarawa area of Kaduna, told the court that her husband does not want her to give birth.



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” We have two children now , but he doesn’t want more children. He has threatened to disown my pregnancy if I get pregnant again”, she alleged.

Yusuf also told the court that her husband accuses her of infidelity.

The defendant was however not in court and the court messenger said he had served him.

The Judge, Malam Dahiru Bamalli, ordered the complainant to produce her guardians in court on Dec 30.

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My husband wants to use me for money ritual- policewoman

A policewoman, Sgt. Wuraola Babalola, has petitioned a Mapo Customary Court in Ibadan, seeking the dissolution of her marriage of 14 years to Oladimeji, over alleged attempt to use her for money ritual.

According to the petitioner, alleged that Oladimeji, uses different kinds of charms whenever he wants to sleep with her.

She alleged that Oladimeji, has also turned her into his punching bag.

”At any slightest opportunity, he stripes me prevents my relatives from seeing me.

”He puts puts charms in my private part whenever he wants to sleep with me. He also surrounds my plate of food with charms, saying he uses it to protect me.

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“He has also buries different kinds of charms in the house chanting my name. My first child saw him do that.

“I have evidence of all the charms and how he maltreats me on my cell phone,” she alleged.

Oladimeji was not in court to answer to the allegations.

The bailiff informed the court that he had on several occasions served hearing notices on Oladimeji, who lives in Oluyole Estate in Ibadan.

After listening to the testimony of the petitioner, Chief Ademola Odunade, the President of the court, dissolved the marriage, on grounds of threat to life.

He granted custody of the three children to the petitioner and ordered the respondent to pay N15,000 as the monthly feeding allowance.

The arbitrator ordered the clerk of the court to ensure that copy of the judgment is sent to Oladimeji.

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Housewife drags husband to court for refusing to pray

A housewife, Shamsiyya Dikko, on Thursday begged a Sharia court l sitting at Rigasa, Kaduna to dissolve her marriage with Aminu Umar, over his refusal to pray.

The complainant who resides at Rigasa, also prayed for divorce on grounds that Umar was an alleged drug addict who has refused to provide for his family.

”I have been living with my parents for nine months due to my husbands behaviour. He has not visited me even once to apologise for his actions,” she told tghe court.

On his part, Umar denied the allegations against him saying he only smokes cigarette.

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Umar told the court that he was still in love with his wife.

He said that he had made efforts to resolve the problems and has met with his in-laws after his wife left his house in order for her to return to her matrimonial home but she refused.

He prayed court to give him more time to try and reconcile with his wife.

After listening to the parties, the Judge, Malam Dahiru Bamalli, ordered the couple to work towards saving their marriage.

Bamalli, however, ordered them to produce their their parents or guardians in court if the reconciliation was not successful.

He adjourned the matter until Dec. 18, for report on reconciliation or for divorce proceedings to begin.

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Videos: Pregnant Chioma says yes to Davido’s marriage proposal

DMW boss, David ‘Davido’ Adeleke is engaged to long-time girlfriend, Chioma Rowland.

The singer proposed to her at an event with their close friends and family present.

Davido shared photographs and a video from the proposal on his Instagram page @davidoofficial with the caption, “She said yes. Big rock.”

This proposal comes shortly after their family introduction, announced by the singer on Instagram, which took place on Sept. 2.

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Abuja pastor cries out: My wife is sleeping with our senior pastor

Divorce is now dangling over the marriage of an Abuja-based Pastor, Joel Banimore, and wife, Mary, over an alleged infidelity.
Banimore says the woman has been sleeping with a senior pastor whose name he has, however, not given.
He has ragged the woman to a Mapo Customary Court in Ibadan, seeking the dissolution of their 19-year-old marriage over alleged infidelity.
If the marriage is dissolved, Banimore’s case will remind many Nigerians of cases of nigerian pastors who have divorced their wives.
These include Pastors Chris Okotie and Chris Okotie whose divorce cases were popular at the times they happened.

Banimore told the court: “I have forgiven Mary’s adulterous behaviours before. I can no longer tolerate it because I am also a pastor and for the sake of my well-being. On several occasions, Mary has hidden under the guise of going to our senior Pastor’s home to assist him to fetch water and wash his clothes. In the pastor’s home one day, I met both of them in a compromising position and my initial fear was confirmed.”
The woman, however denied the allegations.
According to her, her greatest mistake in life was her decision to marry Bamimore, in spite of her parent’s warning.

She said, “I am not an adulterer, I have lived with Bamimore with all sincerity and honesty. The clergy he referred to as my lover, is a real man of God, in fact, he usually gives my husband, money to feed his family. I indeed used to assist the man’s family with their chores. It has become my husband’s way of life to accuse me of adultery and embarrass me in the public, stripping me naked and inflicting injuries on me.”
The president of the court, Chief Ademola Odunade, appeared to have sympathy for mary, saying Banimore was not being fair to her.
he then ordered them to produce more evidence to support their arguments and adjourned the case to October 30 for a continuation of hearing.