To some it is purely an abomination.
To others it is pornography, which may harbour some commercial interest.
To others, however, it could be an expression of fantasy, a journey in the expression of untamed fun.
Whatever definition one gives it, the fact is that a young lady called Queen has created the record of being the first housemate of the Big Brother Naija to openly express the wish to experience threesome.
Whether or not she will get it in the house, or eventually fulfil the yearning later, is left for time to decide.
So clear is she about her uncommon dream that she defines the way she wants it.
She does not want it the lesbian way, she does not want a one man two women – neither does she fancy two man and two women.
According to her, she wants to see herself in the midst of two men, probable giving them the game of their lives.
What an effrontery, some people will yell!
She revealed the wish in a chat with former HOH Pere, Queen, noting, “I want to have a threesome with two guys. It’s something I’ve been thinking of and want to experience it.
“It’s just one of my sexual fantasies I wish to have.”
The 26-year-old Queen Atang, who hails from Akwa Ibom State, is a graduate of Tansian University, Umunya, Anambra State.
According to her profile on BBNaija platform, she is a philanthropist and an aspiring politician.
Now, some funny chaps may note, her aspiration has widened to winning the BBNaija’s N90m prize and experiencing a threesome.
About ‘threesome’, according to Wikipedia:
In human sexuality, a threesome is commonly understood as “a sexual interaction between three people whereby at least one engages in physical sexual behaviour with both the other individuals”. Though threesome most commonly refers to sexual activity involving three participants, it is also sometimes used to apply to a long-term domestic relationship, such as polyamory or a ménage à trois.
A threesome is a form of group sex which may occur in private situations, such as spontaneous sexual activity among three friends or in the context of casual sex or a hook up. Alternatively, it may take place in specific contexts or environments which allow for sex, such as swingers events, orgies or sex parties.
A threesome is a common element of sexual fantasy, and it is commonly depicted in pornography.
The first major academic work to address threesomes specifically was published in 1988, called: Threesomes: Studies in Sex, Power, and Intimacy by Arno Karlen. In the work, drawing mainly from interview data, Karlen outlined how threesomes were often viewed as qualitatively different to other forms of group sex.
Other notable findings include that threesomes were often viewed by women as a safe way to explore their sexuality; they often consisted of a couple joined by a third person; and that the third person was not necessarily viewed or treated equally. Karlen also suggested that the societal view of threesomes cast those who engaged in them as radically different to other members of society:
There is a common tendency to think of people who have been in threesomes as alien beings. Like swingers, homosexuals and others who deviate from basic sexual norms, they seem to many to have entered another social, psychological, and moral sphere.
Research exploring rates of threesome engagement suggest that men have both higher levels of interest and participation in threesomes. One study soliciting responses to a sex survey via a British newspaper found that 34% of 1,862 men, and 15% of 2,905 women had experience of a threesome. From a nationally representative sample in the USA, 34.1% of men and 11.1% of women found a threesome to be at least somewhat appealing and 18% of men and 10% of women had engaged in one
