‘Eji Owuro’ singer, Sola Allyson, has revealed an uncommon trait that defines her marriage.
Unlike what obtains in the marriage of a colleague of hers like Tope Alabi, in which she and her husband are almost always together, Allyson says she and her own hubby maintains what can be termed mutual distance.
According to her, she lives in her own house while he resides in his.
“I am married but not living with my husband. He stays in his house and I also stay in my house. That’s the love that people older than us didn’t let us know is hard. They make it seem like once you love each other, you will live happily ever after,” Allyson adds.
She made the assertion during an interview with Oyinmomo TV posted on YouTube on Friday.
Allyson further explained her concept of marriage, emphasising that she and her partner married each other, rather than her husband marrying her.
“Saying I am in my husband’s house is different from saying I married my husband. My husband and I married each other; we are in one another’s life.
“Saying I am in my husband’s house gives men a sense of ownership. I am not doing competition with anyone.
“Feminism is not saying men are not good people. What feminism is, before anger came into it because of how women were treated, was that the choice that men have to do whatever they wish should also be given to women,” she added.
