A Nigerian feminist, Nkechi Blanze, has proposed the principle of cheat-I-cheat in marriage, urging women to repay proven husband’s adultery with adultery.
She says once she catches her own husband’s too cheating, with evidence, she too will repay him with such.
She argues in a post:
“Everyone knows that I’m a STRONG ADVOCATE and self-acclaimed coach of cheat back. I have consistently preached cheat back for several years. I know so many women who have been practising my gospel, but I also know that some women who have been cheating back do not want their identities revealed.
Continuing in another post, she wrote: “Someone said “Nkechi, you are asking women to cheat back? But you are not practising it.”
“These people are so daft. I said cheatBACK, not cheat. There must have been cheating before cheat back will happen.
“So, whenever you get me evidence that he is cheating, give me a week max, and I’ll get you evidence that I’ve started cheating back. Not mere words of mouth. I mean EVIDENCE. I will need to catch or see evidence of cheating before I cheat back.
“I have NOT caught him, I haven’t observed any sign and no one has presented me with evidence.
“While we wait, we will keep preaching the gospel till we are in a position to practice what we preach. I’m NOT in that position yet. I hope never to be. But, if it happens, it happens. Life goes on. We already know what we will do, and we stated that very clearly before marriage.”
