Lagos-based broadcaster, Toke Makinwa, has said that she neither hates men nor marriage.
Her marriage did not work out and she has been very vocal on relationship matters.
She, however, says she has nothing against the marriage institution.
In an online reflection, she avers: “Funny how the narrative out there is that I hate men or I’m a man basher, etc. I’m a huge advocate for marriage cos 2 is better than 1. The way this generation is set up though.
“We use people and value things. It should be the other way around. We used to value people, and things were to be used. Our generation is moving like everyone is replaceable, we stopped investing in people because we all think we can find better.
“Everyone moves like our material things and what society has made us think is real success is what we need to invest in. Way back, it took a community to raise kids, not anymore, our walls are so high.
“We care more about what we put out; everyone is all about “I” and the few who are not getting involved with those who are and it ends up being one-sided. People picking their peace of mind over a collective Peace for all can’t work.
