Elijah Adebero
If you want to really appreciate the difference between ‘has’ and ‘had’, you just have to take a deep look at the way May, wife of actor Yul Edochie, recently used the latter.
According to her, she ‘had’ a stable and loving home.
With the emotional statement, one can imagine the distance between has and had in practical sense.
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The woman who has remained uniquely strong in the midst of matrimonial trial was making a bold statement about her marriage after her husband got married to another woman.
This is the memorable and philosophical way she, however, presented her story:
“THE ABILITY TO ACCEPT OR TOLERATE CHALLENGES AND PROBLEMS IN LIFE IS A VIRTUE, AND SHOULD NOT BE MISCONSTRUED.
THERE IS NO POINT MAKING AN ALREADY BAD SITUATION WORSE, HENCE THE NEED TO REMAIN CALM IS CRUCIAL.
I UNDERSTAND THAT WE ALL HAVE OUR WEAKNESSES AND LIMITATIONS AS HUMANS, AND I PERSONALLY BELIEVE EVERYONE DESERVES AN OPPORTUNITY TO MAKE THINGS RIGHT WHEN THEY STRAY…
FORGIVENESS IS DIVINE.
BEYOND ALL UNNECESSARY FACADES, POLYGAMY IS A LIFE CHOICE AND NO ONE SHOULD BE COMPELLED TO ACCEPT IT.
IT IS SOMETHING I THINK ALL PARTIES INVOLVED SHOULD EMBRACE WILLINGLY, AND IT’S OKAY FOR ANYONE FOR ANYONE WHO CHOOSES IT.
SOME REGIONS/TRADITIONS ALLOW POLYGAMY AND I HAVE NOTHING AGAINST IT.
HOWEVER, I AM ABSOLUTELY AGAINST IT.
HOWEVER, I AM ABSOLUTELY CERTAIN THAT I WILL NOT BE NUMBERED AS A WIFE OR BE CAJOLED TO ACCEPT A PRACTICE THAT DOES NOT ALIGN WITH MY FAITH AND FAMILY VALUES.
GOD BLESSED ME WITH A HAPPY, PEACEFUL AND LOVELY FAMILY IN A BEAUTIFUL AND JOINTLY BUILT ‘MANSION’ THAT STARTED FROM LITTLE OR NOTHING….HUMBLE BEGINNINGS.
WHAT MORE COULD I HAVE BEEN ASKING FOR?
I HAD A STABLE AND LOVING HOME PRIOR TO THE UNPRECEDENTED EVENTS REGARDING MY MARRIAGE.
LIFE IS MADE UP OF AN INFINITE AMOUNT OF CHOICES.
MOST DECISIONS MIGHT BE TOUGH TO MAKE, BUT WHENEVER WE CONFRONT OUR OPINIONS WITH COURAGE AND CONFIDENCE, WE SHOULD EQUALLY BE OPEN TO THE PATHS OF OUR OWN DESIGN.
I BELIEVE THAT WE ARE SOLELY RESPONSIBLE FOR OUR CHOICES, AND WE HAVE TO ACCEPT THE CONSEQUENCES OF EVERY DEED, WORD, AND THOUGHT THAT COMES WITH IT IN OUR LIFETIME.
WE SHOULD UNDERSTAND THAT TAKING LIFE CHANGING DECISIONS HASTILY IS NOT THE BEST.
GOD IN HIS INFINITE MERCY FIXES THINGS IN HIS OWN TIME.
HE WILL DEFINITELY ANSWER ALL OUR PRAYERS.
THANKS YOU ALL FOR YOUR CONTINUOUS PRAYERS, LOVE AND SUPPORT.
MAY GOD BLESS YOU ABUNDANTLY.
IT’S STILL MY BIRTH MONTH.”
