Star dancer, Kaffi, has said that many women cannot relate with the essence of their husbands because a lot of the men don’t have what she calls clarity of their selves.
She, in a post in which she tries to redefine the concept of submission, noted that it was not about women losing their voices.
She said: ‘The word “Submission” if it were a human being would have committed suicide because of the falsehood attached to how it’s name has been used .
First of all the word does not mean one is a slave to another nor does it mean a woman must lower her voice , essence and purpose just because she is in the presence of a man.
Submission here to me (my point of view) is more of being in agreement with the thought, purpose, assignment and essence a man carries as this would gravely affect the amount of selfless , sacrifice and trust a woman needs to have to become the Favour God has ordained her to be to the man.
And don’t forget every woman carrying Favour is a woman with a dream and essence amd assignment too. She MUST only submit to one who would obtain what she carries in her that God wants to manifest into the world .
Man being a Lord , Custodian or asked to LOVE his wife also comes from a place of nurturing , developing , enduring ,learning , and so many more Christ – like qualities . And not just emotional and financial provision . The world needs to be a better place and it takes people who understands their assignment and purpose on earth .
A lot of our men don’t even have clarity of self , too much pressure ,distractions and expectations created by culture , society in fact safe to say expectations of the FLESH over that of the kingdom has led to a lot of straying of souls .
Both men and women need a break to gain clarity , to find themselves before seeking a partner .
God help us all !”
