Mrs Florence Ajimobi, wife of former Governor of Oyo State, Abiola Ajimobi, has revealed that he once caught him having affairs with other women twice.
She, however, noted that, on both occasions, she forgave him because she believed that men indulged in such affairs just because of sex.
According to her, they do not involve long-lasting love.
Mrs Ajmobi was caught speaking on the matter in a video, as reported by ‘The Punch’.
She appeared to be counselling her daughter in the video.
She said, “Even on one or two occasions that I caught him cheating, he will apologise and once he apologises and it ends, I never go back to them (the issues) again. I never, Bisola because what I’m saying is to err is human, to forgive is divine.
“We are friends. Even as a wife, sometimes I fall below his expectations. Sometimes we do something worse than cheating.”
When asked what could be worse than having an affair, Mrs. Ajiombi responded, “There are some women that build houses without their husbands knowing. It is bad. Why would you do such a thing without telling him? So, there are different things we do. It is not only cheating that is bad in a relationship.”
According to her, if a husband is caught having an affair, the wife should forgive and not overreact.
“Most men when they cheat they just have sex with the woman but when a man is having relations with a woman he loves, he is making love, it is not about sex. So, if you are cheap enough, give yourself to my husband, he is mine. He will never go away. He will come back. You are eating left over because I have eaten the better part of him.”
“The point I will opt for divorce is when it becomes violent. And I cannot take that. But I don’t buy divorce because I look at my background… My mother never married my father. I was born out of wedlock. I grew up with my mum and stepfather. It is not the best for any child.
“So, even before I got married, I made up my mind that this union called married would be forever,” she noted.
